It's who we don't know we are influencing that means the most. Sometimes that means we might never know just how many lives we are impacting. I am still learning of the lives Doug had influence on. I sit and read the 90 softballs that were left on our yard. Realizing there are names of athletes I have never met, athletes my girls don't know. Athletes at some point Doug had touched. I love the story a girl from high school sent me. She was impacted by Doug because he smiled a